Ask the  Rabbi...

What is my obligation in regard to Kibud Av V’Eim if my parent is mentally ill and asking me to do something that is not reasonable?

Kibud Av V’Eim would only be applicable for something that affects a parents’ need, such as food or clothing. Even regarding food and clothing, the parent is obligated to pay for them on their own. That being said, there is another Halacha: “Cursed is one who hits his father or mother”. Regarding that Halacha, a person would only be obligated to listen to a parent when it is something that affects the parent and does not make any difference to the child. Certainly if a parent is asking the child to do something harmful, they should not listen.

What is the Halacha regarding taking psychotropic medications on Shabbos and Yom Tov?

It is important to take psychotropic medications as directed at all times, including Shabbos and Yom Tov. One should consult with a rabbi who is knowledgeable in this area to determine the correct method for taking medications on Yom Kippur and other fast days.

What is the Halacha regarding revealing mental health conditions during the dating process?

Everyone today has issues, so as long as a person is functional and can deal with others in a normal way, they are not obligated to reveal any mental health conditions even if they are taking medication. If it is a serious mental health condition, then the person should reveal the condition when the dating starts to get serious.